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once you do this program your life will never be the same because this actually works——–her name is lucinda basset , the webpage is —— midwestcenter.com
Duration : 0:7:36
Social Anxiety : My Story Pt. 1
When did I first find out I had social anxiety disorder?
What were some personal experiences?
It might be confusing that I found out when I was a junior in high school, yet I had it for more than eight years. The thing is, for the longest time I just flooded myself and faced my fears - socializing with immense anxiety - and then it came to the point where I couldn’t fake it anymore. Hope that clears it up. 
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This is part one of a bajillion videos I’ve made talking about SA so if you need an outlet at the end of the day *subscribe* and I’ll keep you company! :O)
Duration : 0:9:0
my experiences (so far) of trying to overcome social anxiety.
the aim of this video is to help other people with social anxiety/shyness by giving my own tips and techniques on how i have done so far.
please note that EVERYBODY with social anxiety, social phobia or a shy person is unique. These terms only describe people that are anxious in social situation. For example you can have two people with social anxiety in a room at the same age-one gets very anxious mainly in a school environment but has no anxiety in shops or in town. however the other guy may have his main social anxiety mainly while walking around in public . so you can see now that just because people have social anxiety, it doesnt really mean they are that similar as you may have previously thought. Therefore challenging yourself has to be unique and beneficial to you. counselling can provide you to talk about what you find most difficult and therefore set your challenges related to you and therefore improve.
a bit about me-I am shy and have social anxiety and I have recently had counselling sessions to help me overcome the problem and I am hoping to end up enjoying my last year at college with social interactions instead of isolation and loneliness. So far to the date of this video creation (13/6/09) I have had two counselling sessions in the space of three and a half weeks. Already I am noticing a difference and this video explains a lot about how I have approached making this slight change already. from this video I hope to help other people out as well. GET COUNSELLING!
I appologise if the writing is in large chunks or too difficult to read . I had too much to write lol. and took me a while too so hope you all enjoy it 
Duration : 0:6:22
Social Anxiety and Talking on the Phone Anxiety
I talked a little fast at the end because It sounded like someone running up the stairs. And than I talked to myself at the end saying so now its going to stop or whatever. Haha, I am so funny. The title is basically what I talked a bout.
Duration : 0:3:8
Social Anxiety Cure
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Duration : 0:4:9
Overcome Social Anxiety and Shyness
How to overcome Social Anxiety disorder and Shyness using a simple technique of self treatment.
Duration : 0:4:44
Japanese Social Anxiety Disorder patient being abused
***Transcript is at the end***
A family hired a self-proclaimed “social worker” to take care of a 27 year-old Hikikomori (socially withdrawn) daughter who has retired herself in her parents home for 6 years.
Instead of intervening in her early stage of recluse and taking her for a psychiatrist to screen her for underlying mental diseases such as Social Anxiety Disorder, Depression, PTSD, Schizoid personality disorder, Avoidant personality disorder, Asperger syndrome, Agoraphobia, Autism spectrum disorder or Attention-Deficit-Disorder, they finally decided to take a drastic method: They handed down their responsibility to a sadistic money-greedy phony who asked her parents/sisters to hit their daughter/sister and humiliate a highly probable mentally-ill patient in front of a Japanese national television. (Later a “patient” died in her inpatient facility while being handcuffed and chained. Subsequently she was prosecuted and sentenced for 3 and a half years.)
Sadly this video demonstrates two things. 1) How poor the psychiatric literacy of an?average Japanese is.
2) The anger the family exudes against the poor girl, comes from the shame the girl brought to the family for the last 6 years. Their neighborhood, relatives, friends, coworkers would have talked against their back instead of supporting them; that their parents were spoiling her, etc. The family went thru that shame and now their lashing it out on the poor girl in front of TV to regain face.
Japanese people are highly sensitive on how they appear on other people’s eyes. This is b/c Japanese traditionally adopts scare/prohibitory tactics to teach, i.e. you must not do this b/c people will scold you. In other words they don’t care about what the fundamental problem is, but on how they appear and how to get themselves off the hook from people’s scrutiny. That’s why the Japanese are quick to apologize or smile. The mentality is to give a facade of repentance even if you don’t care, and the trouble will go; they don’t like confrontation. My take is that this attitude comes from the hierarchical system of the medieval times when Samurai (servant) used to pledge allegiance to his feudal lord. What your lord asks is imperative. Unlike Europeans for which God is the absolute moral code, that of the Japanese is other people’s random values. This type of blind allegiance is what the Europeans fought against in the French Revolution. The Japanese never had a civil revolution against the authorities to win civil rights like our European friends. We had it handed down by the Americans after the Pacific War. In fact till the U.S. Navy compelled Japan to open to the west in 1854, Japan was a closed nation (ironically like Hikikomori) for a few centuries. Now the nation only got out of its reclusive life for less than 200 years.
Japan is no advanced country. The country has advanced industry but the people’s mindset is still limited and medieval. They never had a breakthrough revolution on their own. They had it easy. This country only has tamed humanoids with good rote memory and engineering skills. 10% are successful foreign demand firms, the rest are obsolete educators, greedy civil servants/politicians leeching on political interests, and downhill internal demand firms.
This video is the omen of the future of the ever-stagnating Japan.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hikikomori
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Transcript:
0:01
Social Worker: Alright. Can you bring your daughter down here? (authoritative tone)
Social Worker: You can go ahead first. (and lash out at and pour water on her)
Father: Why don’t you cool your head down for once? huh?!
Daughter: …
Father: Get yourself out! I won’t let you have your way anymore!
Father: Why don’t you cool your head down some more and contemplate harder? (for what you’ve done)
Father: How is it? It’s cold huh? I’m asking you! What are you going to do? (with your life)
Social Worker: Um, can you have her clothes changed and take her downstairs? (authoritative)
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00:27
Social Worker: Hey you! Hey you! You must start talking! huh?
Social Worker: You imbecile! Isn’t your brain working? huh! huh? (corners the mute girl)
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00:47
Father: Why can’t you lash out more at your daughter and tell your feeling! (father hits his wife)
2nd eldest sister: Mom, you must show your feelings. (sobbing)
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00:55
NARRATOR: “AND THAT WAS THE MOMENT THE FAMILY’S SUPPRESSED EMOTIONS BRIMMED OVER” (the lynch starts)
2nd eldest sister: We must do it.
Mother: I hoped you’d understand without me hitting you. (snaps)
Mother: I never had hit you! (sobs)
Mother: Don’t take me for granted! You idiot!
Father: This is it. We can’t let you be anymore.
1:17
NARRATOR: “FATHER’S OUTCRY & MOTHER’S TEAR” “WOULD THE FAMILY REVIVE ITSELF?”
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Suicidal Thoughts & Social Anxiety
I talk about the suicidal thoughts I had when I was younger and how grateful I am now that I didn’t end my life.
Duration : 0:8:34
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One Week Until I Officially Graduate From College…Anxiety Levels Initiating?
One week from today, the ceremony will be over. Unlike my “a week from today self”, I still have to take the journey to get
Duration : 0:5:39